I'm having to learn to subdue the things I share.
It's a hard lesson for me, really. I have – for years now – been fairly unabashed about being totally frank about almost all aspects of my relatively insignificant life. I've talked about sex, boobs, money, illness, fears, embarrassment. Mistakes. Disappointment. I've lain myself bare over and over. It's been therapeutic, and I've never regretted anything I've said.
This year, though, my big kids entered the social stratosphere. Phones and accounts and the whole nine. Text message mothering is in full swing at the Steen/Marsh household, guys, and it's a beautiful thing.
But now that school is in session and I've realized how anything that I say can no doubt circle back full force on the kids, I feel a little…lost.
This blog is so special to me and I will never fully leave it behind, but the stories aren't just my stories anymore.
My kids deserve a face and a day to day that isn't sifted through for things to talk about, analyze, or recount. I want them to know that I, above all people, respect their rights to be who and what they are on their own two feet. They have always deserved this, and if I have violated this trust in the past then let this be my apology.
I will not go away.
I will still be a proud mom and I will probably still embarrass them with birthday posts or letters or general weirdness.
But I am saying this: Max, Ava – I will not steal your rights, whatever they are. Whether it's an experience, a breakthrough, a learning moment, or even a joy…
I will let you tell your own stories.
I hope that you do.